Choices

Day 94

Life is all about choices. Every step you take involves choices.

When you wake up this morning, you choose what you want to wear for work.

Don't blame it on the weather when you wore too little and shiver in the cold. You could have check the weather forecast and brought your coat.

When you leave for work, you choose where you want to wait for your cab.

Don't be angry that all the available cabs seem to be on the other side of the road. You chose to wait on this side.

When you reach your workplace, you choose to work or skive.

Don't blame it on your boss giving you more work. You could have said no. But that could cost you your bonus and progress. You choose to do what your boss says in order to earn more money.

When you return home, you choose to watch the tv first or shower first.

Your wife might be screaming at you but you tolerate all that to watch your favourite Mythbusters.

Some say it is tough to make choices. Making choices is not tough. What is tough is facing the consequences. Anger, Happiness, Sorrow? Blame, Celebrate, Avoid? Again, we have a choice. How we choose to face consquences will determine the type of life that you lead. It takes courage to make the choice. It takes determination to stand by your choice. It takes time to know if you have made the right choice. The bottom line is, what type of life do you want to lead?

逃避不一定躲得过，面对不一定最难受；
孤单不一定不快乐，得到不一定能长久；
失去不一定不再有，转身不一定最软弱。

别急着说别无选择,

别以为世上只有对与错,
许多事情的答案都不是只有一个,
所以 , 我们永远有路可以走。

生气是拿别人做错的事来惩罚自己。
你能找个理由难过, 你也一定能找到快乐的理由。

获致幸福的方法是珍视你所有用的、遗忘你所没有的。
快乐不是因为拥有多，而是计较少。
爱的力量大到可以使人忘记一切，却又小到连一粒嫉妒的沙石也不能容纳。

你不能左右天气，但你能转变你的心情；
要如何过你的人生，一切由你自己决定。